Poll
Question:
What would you have him/her do?
Option 1: Support Me
Option 2: Do It For Me
Serious question.
You come home after a piece o shit day. With one really nagging problem you just can't seem to deal with, and it's driving you mad. You find your significant other smiling at you and asks "How was your day honey?". You both sit down and you try to explain to him/her your problem as best you can.
What would you like his/her response to be?
Would you want him/her to give you moral support, to edge you on so that one day you may conquer this problem yourself?
Or would you want him/her to come up with a solution and solve your problem for you?
It's hard to choose.
It's not right for her to give you an answer because if it ends badly you'll push the blame on her.
Quote from: Hakudamashi on August 07, 2013, 03:37:31 AM
Don't pussy out on me.
Uhm... alright then.
OK, I choose moral support. If your boyfriend/girlfriend/hasubando/waifu reassures you that everything will be alright in the end, you'll get the courage one day to fina a way to solve your issues yourself?
Why're you asking?
Quote from: Hakudamashi on August 07, 2013, 04:38:07 AM
Why're you asking?
I'm more stating than asking, but I put the question mark there because I am unsure if I made the right answer.
There is no "right answer", I'm just asking what you would do.
To do the right thing.
If its something i'd need to solve myself, do that.
If its something I couldnt do myself, do that.
If its something really dumb, "just no."
It depends on the problem. People don't always need to give you support if you did the wrong thing. :(
Quote from: {Your Lovely Kyo}~ on August 09, 2013, 04:22:39 PM
If its something really dumb, "just no."
You mean, you'll have her listen but don't want her to do neither?
Most of the people that'd ask me "dude whats wrong" would call me a faggot.
Moral support.
Moral support and if super confident, a solution wouldn't be bad. The situation at hand is what would determine what I would really say, though.