Bf/gf problems thread

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xaio

Quote from: Will the Hedgehog on September 16, 2009, 11:19:50 AM
k,ill make sure draco kills you nice and slow ;D
ROFL not unless i do!!

back on topic: i think this girl likes me.. truthfully, but she's in the 7th, and i'm in the 8th, and i wanna rlly date someone MY level... should i tell her or not?

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Will the Hedgehog

...not sure i liked someone who is 17

Dracoslythe

K, so I have a legitimate problem:

I broke up with my boyfriend like 2 years ago(No, I haven't had a bf since.  rofl).  We had been going out for a while (about a year before we broke up).  Now he's trying to get back with me.  My parents are like "do it do it."  My mom even said "Yes, your little 'Espi' friend is nice, but don't let him get in the way of your personal life."

So now I have my parents and him trying to get me to hook back up with him, and then my mom gets pissed for being so close to Meph.  >_>


The same day that we broke up, he started going out with one of my friends.  Well, he didn't know that she's a lesbian, so that blew up in his face, and I kind of laughed. (nothing wrong, but they don't talk, and expect me to choose sides...she's a good friend, but me and him go waaaay back to elementary school...).  His parents start hating her, and he wants nothing to do with her.  I feel no sympathy for him, though.  Although he did try to woo me back in by telling me that he shoulda just said "I love you, talk to you later" the day that we broke up (it was mutual, and I kinda like not having everyone go "awww" and shit at school...)
I mean, we're still friends and all, but...

I keep saying "no" cause well...I just don't want to.



annoyinglad

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Quote from: Dracoslythe on September 16, 2009, 05:00:48 PM
K, so I have a legitimate problem:

I broke up with my boyfriend like 2 years ago(No, I haven't had a bf since.  rofl).  We had been going out for a while (about a year before we broke up).  Now he's trying to get back with me.  My parents are like "do it do it."  My mom even said "Yes, your little 'Espi' friend is nice, but don't let him get in the way of your personal life."

So now I have my parents and him trying to get me to hook back up with him, and then my mom gets pissed for being so close to Meph.  >_>


The same day that we broke up, he started going out with one of my friends.  Well, he didn't know that she's a lesbian, so that blew up in his face, and I kind of laughed. (nothing wrong, but they don't talk, and expect me to choose sides...she's a good friend, but me and him go waaaay back to elementary school...).  His parents start hating her, and he wants nothing to do with her.  I feel no sympathy for him, though.  Although he did try to woo me back in by telling me that he shoulda just said "I love you, talk to you later" the day that we broke up (it was mutual, and I kinda like not having everyone go "awww" and shit at school...)
I mean, we're still friends and all, but...

I keep saying "no" cause well...I just don't want to.

Do what YOU think is right. If you let your parents govern your life, you'll be miserable and never get what YOU want. This is one of the few times in a person's life where it IS all about you. The only thing I would advise is to think about it realistically. Have you ever met Meph in real life? No, I don't recall that you have. You can't be sure that someone is the same on and off of the forum. I for one am open, careless, and more comedic online, but in real life I'm shy, wanna be in my own bubble, and have more of a romance type of mindset. You need to think about what could happen. I'm not saying go with the other guy and I'm not saying choose Meph. I just want you to make a crystal clear decision. You can choose neither and try someone else if you want, play the field as it were. Just make sure it's YOUR decision.

As for my personal experiences... I've never been in a relationship, nor do I expect I ever will be in one (one of the reasons I'm greatly considering the USMC as a life choice...). So don't expect me to post much in here unless it's to give advice to my friends.



Dracoslythe

That's what I told my mom.  I told her to just let me be and choose myself.  She kinda huffed and left it alone after that.

I mean, I really have fun with him and all, but I really do kinda prefer to just keep it as friends.  We kinda got lucky after breaking up, and aren't mortal enemies.   I hate when that happens.  But if we do get together again, what's to say that we aren't going to end up like the other girl, not wanting anything to do with each other?
I would hate to lose a good friend over a stupid thing (which is why most breakups take place, is because of stupid shit...)



annoyinglad

Quote from: Dracoslythe on September 17, 2009, 04:29:52 PM
That's what I told my mom.  I told her to just let me be and choose myself.  She kinda huffed and left it alone after that.

I mean, I really have fun with him and all, but I really do kinda prefer to just keep it as friends.  We kinda got lucky after breaking up, and aren't mortal enemies.   I hate when that happens.  But if we do get together again, what's to say that we aren't going to end up like the other girl, not wanting anything to do with each other?
I would hate to lose a good friend over a stupid thing (which is why most breakups take place, is because of stupid shit...)

Ah, I see. Yeah, I don't know the feeling, but I understand it. Good luck with a decision. I wish I had more to say, but that would be intrusive upon your personal life.



xaio

Quote from: Dracoslythe on September 16, 2009, 05:00:48 PM
K, so I have a legitimate problem:

I broke up with my boyfriend like 2 years ago(No, I haven't had a bf since.  rofl).  We had been going out for a while (about a year before we broke up).  Now he's trying to get back with me.  My parents are like "do it do it."  My mom even said "Yes, your little 'Espi' friend is nice, but don't let him get in the way of your personal life."

So now I have my parents and him trying to get me to hook back up with him, and then my mom gets pissed for being so close to Meph.  >_>


The same day that we broke up, he started going out with one of my friends.  Well, he didn't know that she's a lesbian, so that blew up in his face, and I kind of laughed. (nothing wrong, but they don't talk, and expect me to choose sides...she's a good friend, but me and him go waaaay back to elementary school...).  His parents start hating her, and he wants nothing to do with her.  I feel no sympathy for him, though.  Although he did try to woo me back in by telling me that he shoulda just said "I love you, talk to you later" the day that we broke up (it was mutual, and I kinda like not having everyone go "awww" and shit at school...)
I mean, we're still friends and all, but...

I keep saying "no" cause well...I just don't want to.
i say >_>  do what a-lad sed, and
Quote from: annoyinglad on September 16, 2009, 05:16:49 PM
Do what YOU think is right. If you let your parents govern your life, you'll be miserable and never get what YOU want. This is one of the few times in a person's life where it IS all about you. The only thing I would advise is to think about it realistically. Have you ever met Meph in real life? No, I don't recall that you have. You can't be sure that someone is the same on and off of the forum. I for one am open, careless, and more comedic online, but in real life I'm shy, wanna be in my own bubble, and have more of a romance type of mindset. You need to think about what could happen. I'm not saying go with the other guy and I'm not saying choose Meph. I just want you to make a crystal clear decision. You can choose neither and try someone else if you want, play the field as it were. Just make sure it's YOUR decision.

As for my personal experiences... I've never been in a relationship, nor do I expect I ever will be in one (one of the reasons I'm greatly considering the USMC as a life choice...). So don't expect me to post much in here unless it's to give advice to my friends.
Quote from: annoyinglad on September 16, 2009, 05:16:49 PM
Do what YOU think is right. If you let your parents govern your life, you'll be miserable and never get what YOU want. This is one of the few times in a person's life where it IS all about you. The only thing I would advise is to think about it realistically. Have you ever met Meph in real life? No, I don't recall that you have. You can't be sure that someone is the same on and off of the forum. I for one am open, careless, and more comedic online, but in real life I'm shy, wanna be in my own bubble, and have more of a romance type of mindset. You need to think about what could happen. I'm not saying go with the other guy and I'm not saying choose Meph. I just want you to make a crystal clear decision. You can choose neither and try someone else if you want, play the field as it were. Just make sure it's YOUR decision.

As for my personal experiences... I've never been in a relationship, nor do I expect I ever will be in one (one of the reasons I'm greatly considering the USMC as a life choice...). So don't expect me to post much in here unless it's to give advice to my friends.
yeah, buddy, i've never been in a relationship D: ROFL

T3T
THE BRO SOCIETY!!!
bros:
michael(shiner)
HMS7
jeexx
light
sonic360
wind
wtf? i jsut noticed!! RENDEL'S NOT ON HERE!!!
i thank rendel for the sexy pic he drew me!! http://i44.tinypic.com/2hg662d.png
cartoon ver. http://i43.tinypic.com/zj8fly.png

i JIMP'd ~Jizzed In My Pants~ cause
John (same name <333)
Draco
jkid
rendel
(runnin outta space so you know who you are) ARE EPICALL!!!!

Will the Hedgehog

i havent dated 1 single person in my LIFE

sonicmaddave

Quote from: Will the Hedgehog on September 19, 2009, 06:20:03 AM
i havent dated 1 single person in my LIFE

don't worry man your profile says you are 13 well you have your whole life in front of you plenty of time to find a girl. :)

sonicfrenzy

Quote from: sonicmaddave on September 01, 2009, 01:56:43 AM


k, so, me and my ex are enemies because she is a selfish attention seeking loser. So here I thought I'd let out a bit of my anger and show you what my reply was, on her own channel.  ;)


ROFL!!! XD  selfish BI***!!!!
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annoyinglad

Quote from: Will the Hedgehog on September 19, 2009, 06:20:03 AM
i havent dated 1 single person in my LIFE

Hey, join the club. We've got, I mean, I've got cookies!

Quote from: sonicmaddave on September 20, 2009, 03:27:35 AM
don't worry man your profile says you are 13 well you have your whole life in front of you plenty of time to find a girl. :)

Dang... I guess I'm gonna be the only member of the club then...

Quote from: sonicfrenzy on September 20, 2009, 05:25:24 AM
 


ROFL!!! XD  selfish BI***!!!!

Ummm... out of place a bit there pal... I know it's what the topic is about, but we're talking about something different now... nvm, I'll just get yelled at if I continue my opinion...



NiGHTS

Quote from: annoyinglad on September 20, 2009, 07:47:58 AM
Hey, join the club. We've got, I mean, I've got cookies!

Dang... I guess I'm gonna be the only member of the club then...

Ummm... out of place a bit there pal... I know it's what the topic is about, but we're talking about something different now... nvm, I'll just get yelled at if I continue my opinion...

hey what age do you have to be to be in that club

cookies taste good :3

lol

annoyinglad

Quote from: NiGHTS on September 20, 2009, 08:00:01 AM
hey what age do you have to be to be in that club

cookies taste good :3

lol

Any age that typically would have gone on a date, but you still haven't.



NiGHTS

Quote from: annoyinglad on September 20, 2009, 09:05:16 AM
Any age that typically would have gone on a date, but you still haven't.

yep that fits me :/

annoyinglad

Quote from: NiGHTS on September 20, 2009, 10:00:23 AM
yep that fits me :/

Sweet, your in. Help yourself to the cookies!